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Co-Parenting

How To Make Co-Parenting Work In Child Custody

For many parents, the continued well-being and stability of their children is the primary concern in divorce. It is not easy to address issues related to visitation schedules, parental rights and parenting time, but a fair and reasonable order can benefit the children for years to come. Some parents, either by choice or court order, have to share child custody responsibilities through a co-parenting or joint custody agreement.

Benefits of Co-Parenting in Child Custody

There are significant benefits to allowing children to have regular contact with both parents after divorce. However, sharing the responsibility of child custody can be a challenge for two parents who may still harbor difficult feelings about the other. One way California parents can ease the complication of co-parenting is to share as much information as possible and be cooperative about the other parent attending important events for the child.

Additionally, it can be helpful to have a plan in place to address any problems that may arise after the divorce is final. Addressing issues respectfully and quickly can avoid further complications for the parents or children. Finally, it is best for the children when parents refrain from adversarial talk or disparaging comments about each other, particularly in front of the kids.

Sharing parental responsibilities and parenting time after divorce can be complex for the parents, even while providing significant benefits for the children. For those who are facing divorce, it may be beneficial to consider joint custody and how it could work well for their California family. Through a dedication to the interests of the children and a thoughtful child custody order, parents can provide stability and continuity of lifestyle for their children.

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Best decision I could have ever made !!!! The first part of my review is a big Thankyou to Patricia lamas and her team experience responsive and just all around we'll worth it !!!! Without her and her teams  guidance,support  and legal aid threw this process I don't know If it's even possible to begin to imagine my  hardships . I think it's important to note that every individual case   is unique in many ways And I believe this....

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